A NEW national survey from R U OK? has revealed Australians spend an average of 46 hours of their weekly downtime looking at their TVs and digital devices, compared to an average of six hours engaging with family and friends.
The suicide prevention charity has also revealed that around half of Australians spend two hours or less of their weekly downtime connecting with the people who matter to them.
“It’s a big wakeup call that we’re spending almost eight times the amount of hours looking at our screens compared to the time we spend engaging with the people who matter to us,” Rebecca said. “We all need to shift that balance and invest some of our screen time into our relationships and the people around us.”
The survey also revealed that while Australians want to spend more quality time connecting with family and friends, distance (38%); being too tired or lacking energy (28%); being busy with other activities (20%); catching up on housework (19%); or long work hours (18%) are the main obstacles preventing that outcome.
R U OK? Board Director and Executive Director of the Black Dog Institute, Professor Helen Christensen, said finding time in our busy schedules for relationships is critical.
“Connecting with people we care about is so important for maintaining good mental health. We know that strong and caring connections with friends and family provide a vital safety net to help people cope with the challenging moments in life,” Helen said. “Conversely, withdrawing from social engagement is often a sign of poor mental health and this is the time when loved ones need to stay connected, no matter how difficult it may be.”
Make time to reconnect
In the lead up to its eighth R U OK?Day on Thursday 8 September, R U OK? is urging all Australians to spend more time catching up with friends, chatting on the phone with family, or visiting elderly relatives.
Rebecca said setting aside quality time for those we care about makes it easier to start a conversation if you sense they’re not doing so well.
“It takes trust and understanding for someone to open up about what they’re going through,” Rebecca said. “Being there for one another, in both the good and bad times, is the key for building that trust.”
R U OK? Ambassador and former rugby league player Brett Finch said he’ll be taking time to reconnect with his mates on R U OK?Day and throughout the year.
“It can be easy to lose contact with people who matter to us because life’s hectic. Even if you can’t be there in person, pick up the phone and give someone you care about a call. It’s worth the effort. Having been through some personal battles in recent years, I know how important it is that we’ve got good mates and family to talk to,” Brett said.
“I’m so grateful that my family and mates reached out to me when I was at my lowest point. I know the difference a sense of connection and support can make. That’s why I want others to do the same for the people in their world,” he said.